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Hi! Ako si Potchii. Taga-Davao. Nagdiriwang ng kaarawan tuwing ika-25 ng Hunyo. Year of the Monkey at Cancerian. Tahimik | Mabait | Mapagmahal | Maunawain

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matabangutak:

Sa relasyon hindi sapat na mahal mo lang. Kailangan pala matindi ang pang unawa mo at yung faith mo sa inyong dalawa. Faith sa mga pinanghawakan niyang mga salita, at yung tiwala na lagi niyang sinasabi sayo para gumaan ang pakiramdam mo.

Kumbaga sa gera, hindi pwedeng may dala ka lang baril at…

I don’t know what they are called, the spaces between seconds - but I think of you always in those intervals. I miss you so much…


Being a girlfriend.
Being a girlfriend is not just about being beautiful and attractive for your guy. It’s not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you’re mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversaries. It’s not about doing those girly things just to get his attention and not just about feeling mighty every time he did everything you want. It’s also being an emotional partner wherein you support him in every opportunity that he takes, you appreciate everything that he does for you and you thank him for doing it, you remind him on the things he must do and what he must not. Just because you know that you can always keep him on his feet, doesn’t mean you can manipulate him. You understand him not just as a partner but as individual too. you help him in every way showing him, that in a relationship, there’s no “I” or “you”, there’s only “we” and “us”. You know also that a man has their ego, and even when it become a little irritating sometimes, you still understand that it’s a part of his nature. A girlfriend is not just a term, it also has responsibilities that every girl must know. You’re a friend, a sister, a second mom, a teacher, and a best friend. 

Being a girlfriend.

Being a girlfriend is not just about being beautiful and attractive for your guy. It’s not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you’re mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversaries. It’s not about doing those girly things just to get his attention and not just about feeling mighty every time he did everything you want. It’s also being an emotional partner wherein you support him in every opportunity that he takes, you appreciate everything that he does for you and you thank him for doing it, you remind him on the things he must do and what he must not. Just because you know that you can always keep him on his feet, doesn’t mean you can manipulate him. You understand him not just as a partner but as individual too. you help him in every way showing him, that in a relationship, there’s no “I” or “you”, there’s only “we” and “us”. You know also that a man has their ego, and even when it become a little irritating sometimes, you still understand that it’s a part of his nature. A girlfriend is not just a term, it also has responsibilities that every girl must know. You’re a friend, a sister, a second mom, a teacher, and a best friend. 

(via binilog-na-kulangot)

dyosangsingkit:

Minsan kailangan nyo maghiwalay, para maisip nyo na kailangan nyo pala talaga ang isa’t isa.
 Eto ang pinakamasakit na parte ng relasyon, yung magbbreak kayo kasi kelangan nya munang mahalin ang sarili nya. Kailangan nyang sabihing, “ako muna. Sarili ko muna.” Yung mga panahong hindi ka na mapakali at napapatanong ka kung anong mali, kung saan ka nagkulang. Kung saan kayo nagkamali. Pero minsan, kailangan mo rin intindihin ang side nya, na baka kailangan nya munang hanapin ang sarili nya. Na baka kailangan nya ng space dahil nasasakal na sya, dahil napapagod na sya. Ang panahong ibibigay mo sa kanya ay panahon para magpahinga sya. Para maging malaya sya kahit kaunting oras lang. Napakahirap pero ilagay mo ang sarili mo sa kanya. Na napapagod at nahihirapan sa sitwasyon ninyong dalawa. Mababalik din naman lahat sa dati pag nagpahinga kayo. Nasusukat dyan kung mahal nyo talaga ang isa’t isa. Pipilitin nyo mabalik lahat sa dati, alang alang sa relasyon nyo.

dyosangsingkit:

Minsan kailangan nyo maghiwalay, para maisip nyo na kailangan nyo pala talaga ang isa’t isa.


Eto ang pinakamasakit na parte ng relasyon, yung magbbreak kayo kasi kelangan nya munang mahalin ang sarili nya. Kailangan nyang sabihing, “ako muna. Sarili ko muna.” Yung mga panahong hindi ka na mapakali at napapatanong ka kung anong mali, kung saan ka nagkulang. Kung saan kayo nagkamali. Pero minsan, kailangan mo rin intindihin ang side nya, na baka kailangan nya munang hanapin ang sarili nya. Na baka kailangan nya ng space dahil nasasakal na sya, dahil napapagod na sya. Ang panahong ibibigay mo sa kanya ay panahon para magpahinga sya. Para maging malaya sya kahit kaunting oras lang. Napakahirap pero ilagay mo ang sarili mo sa kanya. Na napapagod at nahihirapan sa sitwasyon ninyong dalawa. Mababalik din naman lahat sa dati pag nagpahinga kayo. Nasusukat dyan kung mahal nyo talaga ang isa’t isa. Pipilitin nyo mabalik lahat sa dati, alang alang sa relasyon nyo.

(Source: dyosangnasaktan, via iamishtarr)

Ganito sa Long Distance Relationship.

  • Hindi mo siya mayakap.
  • Hindi mo siya malambing.
  • Hindi mo siya maalagaan kapag may sakit siya.
  • May mga bagay na hindi agad maayos kasi kumplikado.
  • Nakakapraning.
  • Wala kang magawa kapag namimiss mo siya.
  • Gusto mo siyang makasama pero hindi pwede kasi malayo.
  • Hindi mo maiwasang magduda kasi hindi mo siya nakakasama.
  • Nakakamatay kapag namimiss mo siya.
  • Kahit ilang litro ng luha ang iiyak mo hindi kaagad siya makakarating kapag gusto mo siyang makapiling.
  • Hindi mo siya masasamahan sa mga lakad niya.
  • Kapag monthsary or anniversary nyo sa mga net working sites na lang kayo madalas magcelebrate.
  • stimulusandreponse:
  • Yes, ganito ang LDR. But more than the distance, more than the longing, more than the affection you are missing, you will realize how lucky you are that there is someone who can love you from a distance. That there is someone who is brave enough to stand for you and fight for you even if you can't always be together. That there is someone who is hoping big time to be with you someday. That there is someone who loves you truthfully even if you are away.

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